Showing posts with label Growing Up. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Growing Up. Show all posts

Saturday, July 27, 2013

Imaginative Play

Last night I was reading a bit about twins at the preschool stage and thought, "Oh that is so us!" when I read about how the preschool age with twins brings fascinating imaginative play into the house. The kids are playing more independently, but still want nothing more than for you to sit on the floor with them to play out cars racing, crashing, and needing new tires (from Luigi of course), or to line up chairs (a.k.a. the train) to go on a trip to grandma's house, or to simply enjoy an afternoon (pretend) snack of tea (two sweetener scoops for Mommy) and salad with sausage. The book commented on how this is heightened with twins because they feed off ideas from each other -so true. I love watching them get busy creating and interacting with new imaginary worlds and find myself waiting eagerly for the invitation, "Mommy, you come play with me."

As if right on cue, this morning the whole family went on an incredible boat ride! Malynn was busy taking care of two babies, and Jack took charge of the trip:
  • We all put on our life jackets as the first order of business.
  • He was the boat chef and kept us all fed.
  • He also got a trash can and vacuum for clean-up. (Good thing Daddy knew where the storage closest was on the boat!)
  • He had a flashlight for pointing out whales. We saw a red baby whale swimming with a blue mommy whale!
  • The boat took us to a dance party (music supplied by our computers).
  • Jack had some work to do on his computer on the boat ride home, and Malynn had a stinky poop to clean up from one of her babies. She had us all in stitches when she kept saying, "Gross" as she diligently cleaned her baby's bottom!
 Here's Jack pointing out the whales!

P.S. The next morning, Jack and I were playing "bank-store" (that's what we call the side of the playhouse in the basement that has the bank ATM and market window on it). He asked me how much money I needed, $1, $3, or $5. I said I needed to check the balance in my checking account first, and when I found there was only $100, I asked for $5. Jack responded, "No Mommy, if you have $5 that will make all the people sad, you can have $1." (Read into it what you will...!)

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

The Not So Terrible Twos

I'd hate to jinx it, but being 2 has been far from "terrible" for Malynn and Jack! I have to give them credit for the delightful behavior we've been seeing over the past several weeks. There's been lots of successful independent play, improved patience and communication (which is definitely the key to preventing and intervening with meltdowns), and best of all, lots of brother-sister loving!
 
It seems like every single day we have a handful of stories to share with each other and compliment the kids on regarding the sweet and caring things they are doing together. For example:
-Jack got upset and Malynn brought him a stuffed animal.
-Malynn wanted a certain water bottle but the top was in the garage. Jack went to get it and wash it off for her.
-Jack wanted more of the left over chicken at lunch so Malynn gave all of hers to him.
-Malynn's milk cup was in the other room and Jack went to get it for her.
-Jack was lining up cars to push in a line and Malynn watched and encouraged him.
-Malynn wanted some Legos and Jack handed her the ones he had.
-One person takes a turn to hit the T-ball and then steps back and says it's the other person's turn.
One of our greatest goals in raising Malynn and Jack is to foster an unwavering, unquestionable, unconditional bond between them. I think we're on the right track. :)

The other morning they just started walking around holding hands and you could tell it was delighting them to the core. (My apologizes for the focus issues. I've got to figure out how to fix the focus as the video follows objects that get closer and farther away.)


I think this little exchange from the library today sums it up nicely:
Children's librarian: "Those sure are two happy kids!"
Me: "Yes, they are. I sure am one lucky mom."

Friday, May 25, 2012

Year #2 at a Glance -Malynn

June 2011
 July 2011
 August 2011
September 2011
October 2011
 November 2011
 December 2011
January 2012
February 2012
 March 2012
 April 2012
May 2012

Year #2 at a Glance -Jack

 June 2011
 July 2011
 August 2011
September 2011
October 2011
 November 2011
 December 2011
January 2012
February 2012
 March 2012
 April 2012
May 2012

Year #2 at a Glance -Together

June 2011
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September 2011
October 2011
November 2011
December 2011
January 2012
February 2012
March 2012
April 2012
May 2012

Saturday, May 19, 2012

2nd Birthday Celebration

The mulching was done and the signs were hung.
It was time for our big day of birthday fun!
 
When I was trying to think of a theme a million things came to mind. There's so much you can do with a 2/double theme, but nothing was quite the right fit. There are some cute things that Jack and Malynn are particularly fond of right now: monkeys (especially George), trucks (especially construction), tractors (especially John Deere)...but getting the balloons, plates, decorations, etc. to match was more than I wanted to invest in. So I was thrilled when the idea of circles popped into my head! We LOVE circles! It's the first shape that we really discovered, and we've been finding and drawing it with excitement ever since. It makes for a perfectly, simply, homemade-ly birthday theme!
 
Drawing circles is a regular part of our lives:
with sidewalk chalk, on magnetic boards, using crayons and pens.
And we've realized that circles can be part of TONS of simple pictures:
bubbles, apples on trees, snowmen, teddy bears, wheels, flowers, etc.
So I asked guests to draw a simple picture for the kids using circles in some way so that I could assemble a Circle Birthday Book for the kids. Thank you to so many of you who made a picture! Special thanks to Melody, Bryson, Samma, and Aunt Missy for helping to prep all the circle papers!

I couldn't resist decorating with pictures from each month of the past year like I did for last year's party.
   
I had a set for Jack...for Malynn...and for the kids together, -in circles, of course!
Special thanks to Grand & Amita who helped me cut out the circles!

As the morning warmed up the deck slowly filled with people that are all special and important to us!

Family
 

& Friends
 
(Apologies to the many who we didn't catch with the camera.)

An early favorite was T-ball!
Liam and Jack were all over it. Teigen was impressing everyone will some "real deal" baseball action! And we have our money on Elena ending up a soccer star. :)

 Throughout the party Malynn & Jack took a little time to open gifts from people individually.
 We were inspired by our friend Soso, who already turned 2, to forgo the group gift-opening event. It was so nice to have personal moments with each guest and help the kids understand and appreciate who each gift came from.
 A handful of gifts were opened prior to or after the party because they were from friends who couldn't make it or people who came during the kids' nap.
I am so impressed with how appropriate and thoughtful ALL the gifts were. I am a little particular about gifts because I don't want the kids to ever feel like they get presents just for the sake of it or, worse, are entitled to it. It's important that they learn that gifts are a way people say, "I care about you, " and that's just what these gifts did. Some reflected personal connections and all were right on target for the kids.
It was confirming that we were getting all this right when a couple times the kids actually went up to the people who gave them something to say thanks,...
...like this sweet moment when Jack gave Amy & Omar a hug on the leg for the Maisy books. This is such a little thing, but it was one of those occasions when I was on the outside looking in at my son being his amazing self, and if it wasn't for the crowd around me I just might have started sobbing with pride.
One special pre-birthday gift was the one from Grand, Ottar, & Amita...our Striders!
My friend Charlotte, who is terribly far away in Wyoming, recommended them. After watching a few of the videos on the website I was convinced that we HAD to have them. I can't wait to watch the kids get better and better on them and then make a training-wheel free transition to bikes with pedals!

Thank you to everyone for showing such generosity and caring for Jack & Malynn!

The main event of the party was definitely the water balloons!
 
Special thanks to Uncle Nate for filling ALL the water balloons for the day!
The kids thought they were pretty darn awesome before they even knew about throwing them.
And then...it was time to launch them from the deck to the patio below. I drew a target on the patio with chalk which was decimated after about 3 balloons. :)
 
Awesome!

Papa took care of ALL the other balloons we had blown up inside and set up the water table -both of which were also awesome. (Thank you Papa!)
 

Then it was time to crank up the grill.


Unfortunately I do have a birthday blunder story. Jack ODed on juice and chips, and we only knew that juice and chips were the problem because that's what ended up all over Grand's shoulder. The kids get so little of anything like juice or chips in their diet that their system just can't handle more than a smidgeon of treats like that. After a bath and a little break, Jack was eager to get back to the action, and he and Grand were happy to sport their new clean shirts together!
 

Finally it was CAKE TIME!
The group sang a wonderful rendition of Happy Birthday for the kids, with only a minor bobble when it was time to say the name and we hadn't established if it should be "Jack" first, "Malynn" first, or just "the twins." 
Yum!
 This was our best family picture from the day -not too bad actually.
Cake just makes you happy.

At this point we were sneaking up on nap time. To maximize our social time, we just decided to do a little of our "stories before nap time" outside with a couple of our new books.

There were more special moments when it was time to make the rounds and say night-night to everyone.
The kids aren't particularly giving with hugs for anyone outside of the family...except their bestest buddy, Dylan.
Sometimes Malynn gets a little silly as she gets tired, and it's always a crowd pleaser!
Here Kevin, my rowing coach from college (and coach of the current Women's NCAA champions -Go Hoos!) is telling Malynn that he should have brought a letter of intent for her birthday present, and I love that she seems to be thrilled at the notion!
 
 Liam gave us one more gift by sharing his remarkable Woody-Woodpecker laugh!
 
 Here's my girl -the perfect blend of sweet and silly all in one!
And the grandmas had to sneak in a couple loving kisses.
(Jack said bye and thank you to everyone, too, the camera was just following Malynn at the time. Which reminds me...thank you to all of you who picked up the camera and helped us get this fantastic photo record of the kids' 2nd Birthday!)
Happy Birthday Jack & Malynn!